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Day 7. 12/26/21

June 8, 2025
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Hope you are doing well –

It was a beautiful day in NY today.. mid 40s (although dipped down when we headed to dinner). We started the day with breakfast at Jack’s Wife Freda in the West Village and it was so nice out we opted to dine al fresco. Food was good (they use a lot of labneh in the breakfast dishes, which is quite nice). From there we walked around the West Village stopping at a few special streets including Grove, Christopher, and the Washington Mews. Each delightful in different ways. We wanted to see Grove Court, which was built in the 1800s as worker- or low-income housing, but now is higher than market rate. There are 6 townhouses set way back from the street where entry is through a cobblestone path. There’s a locked gate so entry is really only for residents and their guests. I managed to photograph between the bars of the gate (!!)

After walking around the village we headed to ICP (International Center for Photography). The ICP had two major exhibits and some other smaller shows. One of the two exhibits was by Gillian Laub called “Family Matters.” For about 20 years she has photographed her family and used the images and the series to address how society’s problems manifest within more intimate or family situations. Her story, as shown through images and simple text, is probably the story of many who have had to deal with close family members whose politics and beliefs diverge from your own. 

Then we decided we needed some kind of snack and I thought the idea of sharing a hot pastrami sandwich at Katz’s which has been on the lower east side since the 1880s or Russ & Daughters would be perfect and both were within about three blocks of ICP. So, Katz’s had a line that went around the block and the predicted wait time was around 90 minutes just to get inside and then a likely wait inside and Russ and Daughter has not re-opened since Covid began; they only have take-out. So we dashed back to Chelsea Market (by taxi) since I needed to run an errand, and while there we had an appetizer at the oyster bar.

Then we headed back to the hotel for a drink and off we went to Junoon, a great Indian restaurant for dinner. I was there in October when I was in NY with Carol so I now feel like a regular. Actually, I had eaten there previously when they were located a few blocks away. It’s quite upscale but the food is truly wonderful. We were the only non-Indian diners but we fared well. Shared two starters (eggplant chaat with raita, tamarind, red onion, and some other ingredients; and an octopus dish that was cooked tandoori style) and one main course – a spicy goat with red chili oil and spices, and of course we had naan and saffron rice that had little berries and tiny pieces of zucchini. When it came time for dessert the guy who was clearing the table told us to get this dessert called “Cricket.” Not to offend, we took his advice and out came this adorable little cricket made of chikoo (?) mousse, chocolate and green colored coconut (for the grass)…  We probably would have opted for the bread pudding or rice pudding. But the Cricket was quite good. We taxied back to the hotel at about 10:30 and called it a night.

What more can I say – there’s a lot more folks panhandling and clearly winter in NY is not very accommodating for people without a roof over their head; the number and variety of “parklets” for dining outside abound; the number of languages spoken on the street can astound you; and as the need for physical structures for banks decreases great bank structures are finding other purposed like Trader Joes in a former very grand South Brooklyn Savings Bank and a CVS in the building that housed NY Savings Bank in my day.

Assuming our flight really takes off on Tuesday night, tomorrow’s plans include the African Burial Grounds near City Hall, the obligatory, always must-see Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree (It’s always great and it doesn’t matter how many times you see it), a pitstop at the post office to ship some gifts that we’ve been carrying around but didn’t present because of cutting the trip short, possible visit to the Summit at One Vanderbilt (we have tickets for next week and not sure they will let us change the date), and a drive to two other neighborhoods a bit more distant from the center of the city – and then return the rental car.

All the best – Fern 

Day 8. 12/27/21. NYC

June 8, 2025

Hope all is well.

After a leisurely breakfast at The Beekman we attempted to deal with mailing some packages but the lines were enormous and we decided to try a smaller post office along our route. We strolled to the African Burial Ground which is just a few blocks from here, but alas it was closed today. So, we headed out for the day – to visit some interesting streets and neighborhoods, including Sylvan Terrace in Washington Heights—a charming one block long cobblestone street lined on both sides with a total of 20 restored wooden townhouses built in 1882 for working folks. The street, which leads directly to the Morris-Jumel Mansion, is lined with coach lights. But the houses really have nothing to do with the mansion. Lin-Manuel Miranda says “It’s like a weird step backwards in time; you walk on one block and suddenly you’re two centuries back.” He also notes that the Morris-Jumel Mansion is the oldest mansion in NYC and that Aaron Burr lived there for a year. Miranda apparently wrote some of “Hamilton” in Burr’s bedroom!

We also attempted to visit Pomander Walk; I had seem photos over the years. But it is locked at both ends. We waited a few minutes to see if any resident would emerge and let us in, but no such luck. So we could only peek through the locked gates. Pomander Walk is a set of 27 town house units built in the 1920s in a Tudor style. By the way, some pretty famous people have lived at Pomander Walk including Rosalind Russell, Paulette Goddard, and architecture critic Michael Sorkin.

Along the way uptown, we stopped from time to time to see some interesting structures and streets that we stumbled on, grabbed a slice of pizza for a quick lunch, and found a place to ship our packages. We stopped to photograph the Dorilton on 71st and Amsterdam, an incredibly beautiful beaux art structure from the early 1900s. By the time we finished all of this, it was after 4 and we needed to return the rental car. So we zipped off to the Village to get rid of the car and by then it was raining so we taxied to the hotel to begin to pack and get ready for dinner.

On the way (sort of out of the way) we did the most touristy of tourist things (although I did it yearly as a kid living in NY)—we went to Rockefeller Center to see the “tree.” As always it’s a bit magical, but more magical was the amazing light show emanating from Saks Fifth Avenue across the street.. and there were probably larger crowds watching Saks than at the Tree. Saks’ display was a sophisticated symphony of light and sound showing just how much we have all been influenced by the advent of LEDs and computers and the technology that can orchestrate these kinds of light shows. Still it was fun, and I cannot believe we stood there in the rain to watch the whole thing!

Out-of-towners were taking selfies with NYPD officers (!!) and security guards were helping tourists get photos of themselves in front of the Rockefeller Center tree. It was great to hear people directing security guards to be sure to get the top of the tree into the photo!

More tomorrow.

NYC October 31 2021

June 8, 2025

Greetings –

Given that the Brooklyn day (yesterday, October 30) did not materialize due to weather, we made the best of Saturday in Manhattan and concluded with dinner at Junoon, a wonderful Indian restaurant in the Flatiron neighborhood. I’d been to their previous spot and I think I like this reincarnation is better. Restaurants all seem to be reinventing themselves post Covid. So Junoon has two rooms. One is called the bar and the other is called the dining room, but full meals are served in both spaces. The difference is that if you choose to sit in the dining room, you have to order the pris fixe meal which apparently has lots of choices. We opted for the a la carte dinner and ate in the bar which is a really nice space. We settled on several small plates including eggplant chaat which had really thin slices of crispy eggplant and tamarind chutney and masala chaat; a butternut squash dish that was a sort of soup that included roasted squash, pickled onion, pumpkin seeds, some oranges and a coconut based soup; a spicy dish that was some kind of chili chicken (murgh); and a fish dish – I think it was snapper cooked in coconut milk and fenugreek, and other spices.. and there was some tomato and hearts of palm in there too. All wonderful, and reminded me that NY has so many great Indian restaurants (something sorely lacking in the Bay Area). Naturally we had some very yummy dessert.

Like all other restaurants in NY everyone had to show both IDs and vaccination proof; I think NY is much stricter than California on all of this. Given all the rules, it is surprising that we didn’t need to show any vaccination proof on the subway.

The rain had started by the time we were finished eating, so we took a taxi back to the hotel.

Sunday, October 31

We are flying out this afternoon, but naturally wanted to take full advantage of our remaining hours and minutes. We headed to High Street on Hudson in what is probably still the West Village but at the southern end and had a good brunch.. both savory and sweet. Staff was already decked out for Halloween (as were many passersby). From there we headed to the somewhat controversial new open space gem — Little Island –- a 2.4 acre park built atop a former pier and jutting out over the Hudson River. It sits on stilts that look somewhat mushroom-like and there are fantastic views from just about everywhere. There’s an amphitheater, places to sit and relax, several participatory music “sculptures,” prohibits alcohol and bicycles (as it’s made for strolling and relaxing); it’s accessible via a series of ramps that get you to the same places the stairways do. It’s free to the public, opens around 9 am and is open at night. So what’s the problem?

Well, it was paid for (265 million dollars I think + guaranteed subsidy for maintenance and upkeep for 10 years) by millionaires (Barry Diller and Diane von Furstenburg) who happen to have a Diane von Furstenburg dress shop about a block away. And people were upset because there doesn’t appear to have been any real community involvement or consensus about creating this park. Personally I’d rather see millionaires put money into these public places than fly to the moon in private vehicles. Still, many people thought that this amount of money could have been used to house homeless and address pressing social problems in NY. I will say that on the morning we were there, the park was populated by families who appeared to have come from all parts of the city and beyond. Everyone was enjoying the space, the view, and the random music. I didn’t expect to like it but I did – My only beef (if I had a voice as a New Yorker) is that there are actually several parks in the vicinity, not to mention the HighLine which is nearby. Seems like this largesse could have been dedicated to the creation of a wonderful park in some other parts of the city. That said, it’s a wonderful space, a joy to see people (individuals, seniors, kids, families and Instagram-crazy young people) having fun. 

We strolled around the whole “little island” and then headed to the hotel to pack. But enroute, we needed a little food fix. We stumbled on Rosa’s Mexicano where we shared a wonderful trio of enchiladas (mole, suiza, and mestiza) along with pomegranate margheritas. And then we were ready to hail a cab to get our bags and fly to California (me to SFO and Carol to LAX).

It was a great trip, somewhat nostalgic, but all good. Next time, I’ll show folks Brooklyn.

I’m back in Oakland where it does feel like home, but I’ll always have that special place where I grew up, studied, and the place which shaped my values (Brooklyn and New York).

Next travelogue should be in December/January when we head to Malta (via Rome and Geneva for Xmas, and a brief stop in Paris when we head back.)

Thanks for reading or peeking at the photos. 

All the best – 

Fern

NYC : 10/29/21. The Big Apple Still Feels Like Home!

June 8, 2025

After quick breakfast, we headed out together to meet old friends of mine (Mike and Dorie Greenspan) at Odeon in Tribeca. We walked part way and taxied part way. We were pleasantly surprised to be able to spend a short time with their son and daughter-in-law and their toddler (about 15 months old I think). As you can see the family is very photogenic.

Mike and I have known Mike and Dorie for decades and it’s always nice to connect. Dorie is a cookbook writer with a new book out just a few weeks ago, so she’s busy on the book tour circuit (although much of it will be done remotely this time). Good lunch and good conversation. Carol left the lunch a bit earlier to connect up with some people with whom we would have dinner later that night and I spent a bit more time with Mike and Dorie. Mike and I will meet up with them in Paris in January on our way home from our Christmas trip to Geneva.

I then walked from Tribeca to the hotel to freshen up and to get a little exercise given that this would be a non-stop eating day. In any case, I still love to stroll NY in spite of the fact that I’ve probably walked these same streets hundreds of times. Somehow there’s always something new and fresh to see. This time, I was able to marvel at the creativity of the outdoor eating parklets that have been created and are now being “winterized” to stand up to colder and wetter weather.

Eventually, I strolled to the dinner restaurant where I met up with Carol and her friends. They selected Daniel Boulad’s Le Pavillon at One Vanderbilt Avenue (literally just across from Grand Central on the south side). There had been a previous version of Le Pavillon from the 1940s to the 1970s. Naturally, I had never been to that one as it was way too upscale for a starving student in the 70s. But here it is, recreated (in concept I suppose) in a phenomenal space that is overrun with huge plants and walkways as well as spectacular views of both Grand Central and also the Chrysler Building. It’s a three-course meal where you make your own selections from each part of the menu. I started with wonderfully prepared roasted octopus with some kind of tiny peas, followed by duck breast with turnips and plums, and ended with a poached pear. It was a very elegant evening although not as over the top as some places. By the time we finished dinner, it was absolutely pouring outside and we arrived back at the hotel totally drenched…despite Carol’s valiant attempt to use some kind of transparent rain thing that folds into a pocket-sized envelope. I’m sure that after one use, there is no way to refold it.

October 30, 2021

For Saturday, my plan was to give Carol a royal tour of Brooklyn [We had a car rented which I planned to pick up in Soho, drive over the Brooklyn Bridge, head for breakfast in Vinegar Hill, then on to the Brooklyn Heights Promenade for great views back into Manhattan, then drive through or stroll some of Brooklyn Heights and then on to Carroll Gardens and to Fort Greene where we could walk the Pratt Campus; then to Park Slope and Prospect Park, and on to Borough Park where I grew up (it’s now a totally Hasidic neighborhood), a quick look at where I spent my early years, and then on to Coney Island Avenue to drive all the way to Coney Island (through an incredibly changing set of ethnic neighborhoods), a stop at Nathan’s and then walk the boardwalk with a stop at one of the many Russian restaurants that now populate the boardwalk. Then it was to be a drive through Sheepshead Bay and eventually wind up on Flatbush Avenue and head to Grand Army Plaza and then Bushwick which is now home to some amazing murals; eventually we’d wind up in Williamsburg for dinner.) But alas, the weather prediction was for rain and that just didn’t seem like a good way to see Brooklyn. So we switched gears.

I quickly made reservations at the Bryant Park Grill for brunch.. so that we could go into the Main Public Library which often has good exhibits. And they had a good one – “The Color of a Flea’s Eye” – an overview and history of the New York Public Library’s Picture Collection, which began about a century ago. It’s an unbelievable resource that has been used for very diverse reasons over these many years. The Library’s collection is totally amazing and they did a good job of summarizing it. Romana Javitz started the collection in the 1920s and she really created its ethos and also a way of cataloging the millions of images. Just think –– all of this was before the Internet and computer. The categories include things like “People on Streets,” “Handshakes,” etc. They are all hard copies including original photographs by everyone from Diane Arbus to Walker Evans to Weegee. 

Since nothing was planned for this day (other than the cancelled Brooklyn trip) and we were trying to be indoors to avoid the rain, we then headed to Alphabet City to visit the Museum of Reclaimed Spaces (which I knew would be pretty funky given its location on Avenue C!) Frankly, I thought it might be in someone’s apartment. But it was a storefront and clearly a hangout for young people to create posters and conceive tools for protest demonstrations to try to ensure the preservation and creation of public spaces, especially urban gardens. The “exhibit” is in the basement, down a stairway that clearly would not meet any city code. But it was fun and they are doing good work. We strolled a bit and then stopped for a snack at Wayland, an unexpectedly good little place. We had something they called Milk and Honey – Burrata on 7-grain homemade bread/toast with honey drizzled.. A perfect snack. Then we walked through Tompkins Square Park and back to the hotel to freshen up for yet another meal.

One more email to wrap up Saturday night and Sunday morning.. before heading back to California –

All the best –

Fern

From DC to NYC. 10/27/21. Onward to NY

June 7, 2025

Greetings on Wednesday, October 27, 2021

After breakfast and a brief final walk around Adams Morgan, and final packing, we headed to Union Station to take the Acela to Penn Station (NY). We taxied to the station and again chatted with an Ethiopian driver who was both friendly and helpful. For those of you who do not know – I do not take either Uber or Lyft and love real taxi drivers for whom driving is a profession. But that’s another story for another day. Following so many wonderful meals, we settled for Shake Shack at the train station (my first Shake Shack experience). No review for the lunch, but we desperately needed something to eat before boarding the train. Train was pretty full; everyone with masks (but they didn’t check vaccination status as they do at all the restaurants in DC. I hadn’t taken the train from DC to NY in a few years and it was interesting to watch out the window as we traveled and skirted through Maryland, Delaware, Pennsylvania, and New Jersey.

Arrived at Penn Station around 7:30 in the evening and as we got off the train, I remembered how badly Penn Station displays any signs regarding exits and ground transportation; glad I wasn’t a typical tourist, especially one who is visiting the Big Apple for the first time. We hustled our way to a taxi and headed for the Kitano Hotel (in the Murray Hill area – 38th and Park). We decided on the Kitano where I’ve stayed several times before and many times in the vicinity of the Kitano because it’s easily accessible, near subway, near Grand Central Station, and most importantly NOT near Broadway and other highly touristed areas. After a quick check-in we headed to the Oyster Bar at Grand Central to have some food… and to be reminded that we were in NY… with waiters who want you to decide on your order as soon as you sit down and are ready to clean up just as quickly. But we weren’t going to rush. We were tired, hungry, and thirsty. [There’s a saying about NY Jewish wedding waiters – in that they are clearing off the tables while you get up to dance!] Obviously this description is not accurate for the upscale restaurants. Anyway, the meal was perfect.. fresh oysters and some other dishes. We strolled back to the Kitano which is only a few blocks away, and went up to the Kitano’s rooftop bar which has good views of the area and the Empire State Building all lit up.

Thursday, October 28

Carol was going to meet a friend who lives in Staten Island for lunch and I was meeting my brother for lunch. As it turned out all of us (without knowing) selected the same restaurant – Pastis – in the Meatpacking District (which doesn’t have any meatpacking going on anymore. I decided to walk – about 3 miles—to the restaurant. I selected Pastis because after lunch we were heading to the Whitney Museum and the location is perfect. But it’s also a really good restaurant. For many years, the original Pastis was the iconic French bistro in NY. I think it closed for a few years and then re-emerged with much of the same menu (or at least it seemed like that to me). My brother had their famous onion soup followed by a ravioli dish which looked quite yummy. I had my favorite steak tartare, followed by a fantastic herb omelet as I hadn’t had any breakfast and the lunch was early (my reservation was about two hours before Carol’s).

Timing was perfect and I was able to table hop and join Carol and her friend toward the end of their meal. My brother took off for home (Hillsdale–about two hours north of the city) where he is a member of the Town Council, to attend a finance committee meeting. Then Carol, her friend, and I walked to the Whitney to see the Jasper Johns show. Within 10 minutes, I remembered why I hate art museums. The Johns show included news clips about Johns including one about him being the first living artist to sell a painting for $1 million. That fact is part of my dislike of museums as the showing of art in big museums just increases the “value” of the work which is generally owned by wealthy people and then they want more by that artist and the prices increase and it just goes on and on.. and has very little to do with the “purpose” of the work. Here’s an interesting article about one of Johns’ pieces. https://www.washingtonpost.com/arts-entertainment/interactive/2021/jasper-johns-slice-painting-whitney/ . 

The show is actually in two parts with a parallel show in Philadelphia. From the photos I’ve seen, I think Philly may be a more interesting show. But it’s still inside an institution of “high culture” that is not comfortable unless you are white and educated (and those seeing the show certainly fit that profile—not a person of color to be found). OK.. I’ve had my fill of these kind of museums for at least another year.

From there, Carol and I walked all the way to Lattanzi (for an early-bird dinner) in order to make it to “To Kill a Mockingbird” at the Schubert Theater. Lattanzi is always a good choice if you’re headed to a Broadway show. It’s been around forever and serves consistently good Italian food with good service but an overall sense that you’re probably headed to the theater. Broadway shows are starting early these days –- 7 pm.. Generally, I prefer to eat after the show, but restaurants are closing earlier than usual because of Covid, so we opted for a vey early dinner before the show and figured we’d stop somewhere after the theater for another drink and a snack. 

Jeff Daniels was back in the leading role as Atticus Fitch and he deserves all the acclaim he got when the play opened  originally in 2018 and was shuttered due to Covid until just two weeks ago. Based on the classic Harper Lee book, the story is still powerful and perhaps has new and even more meaning in the Black Lives Matter era. Indeed there are clearly some lines that are meant to make the play contemporary in what it forces the audience to think about. Daniels was amazing in the part and the cast was superb. While most of us have probably read the book, the play is quite different in its format and its emphasis – and had to go through a lawsuit by the Harper Lee estate because of some of the changes. If you’re in NY, be sure to try to get tickets. 

After the theater, we strolled to the Campbell Apartment (located inside of Grand Central Station but on a second and third floor with an entrance on just one side of the station.) If you’ve never been to the Campbell Apartment, it’s a treat.. a bigger treat when it’s your first time. We didn’t have reservations and it was quite packed, but we managed to get a table up on the “balcony”.. After some “soothing drinks” and a snack, we headed back to the hotel and crashed. Carol’s room is about two doors down from mine and we both have interesting views of the city.

Remainder of NY part of trip to come… 

All the best –

Fern

Last Days in DC and Onward to my Hometown.

June 7, 2025

10/25/21 and 10/26/21

Greetings –

Monday, October 25, 2021

We got off to a late start, but hopped on the metro to the Unconventional Diner… where we had a great brunch sharing one savory dish and one sweet one (figure the good balances with the other). The restaurant was near the convention center, hence the name! Then we took the train to Old Alexandria and strolled both the neighborhood and the main street. Forgot how charming (and somewhat unreal) Alexandria is — precious to the core. And a total contrast to the neighborhood where we had breakfast. But it was fun… 

By the time we got back to the hotel it was really raining.. Fortunately dinner was at Lapis (an Afghani restaurant) which was only about a half mile from the hotel, so we braved the downpour and walked to the restaurant. Lapis was another great find. Let’s see if I can remember the meal – I think we had sambusa samples (spinach, shrimp, beef with mint yogurt and chutneys); an eggplant dish with some kind of tomato glaze and mint; and… oh my, I cannot remember.. but I’d highly recommend Lapis. 

Tuesday, October 26, 2021 

Right after breakfast, we headed to Georgetown – a long (4 miles?) walk that meandered through many different parts of the city from the outer edges of Adams Morgan (where we are staying) through Dupont Circle and embassies to Rock Creek Park and on to the side streets and residential areas of Georgetown (which were very decorated for Halloween). Georgetown’s commercial area seems to have expanded (??) since my last trip to DC. We stopped for a simple lunch of salad and steak tartare at a nice place that we stumbled on. As soon as we came inside the host who seemed frazzled told us that if we order one of the large salads we’d need to wait about an hour. The salad chef just walked out and now the manager was trying her hand at salad making. The host also told us all the problems of staffing up since Covid… not a new or unique story. We then set out to walk back and get to the hotel before the ominous clouds burst. Walking back was more uphill and we were a bit challenged by the wind which was pretty strong and not on our backs. But we made it… giving us a total of more than 11 miles for the day. En route, we stumbled on a demonstration at the Sudanese embassy—very calm.

After some time to relax, we headed to dinner at Mintwood – an unplanned, last minute choice. Mintwood was about three blocks from the hotel and seemed like a good option in the rain. Turned out to be quite yummy. We had sweetbread appetizers followed by a very nicely prepared fish and great veggie side dishes. We then braved the pouring rain to get back to the hotel to pack and be ready to leave in the morning.

All my best –

Fern

Traveling Stateside. 10/22/21 through 10/24/21 (Washington DC)

June 7, 2025

Greetings

Hope you are well and vaccinated!

So, I rarely write my travel blog when I’m traveling within the US, but given the dearth of travel over the past 18 months (maybe it’s 19 already?), due to COVID-19, just going to the east coast seems exotic and even daring! Thus, I am sending this little series of travel notes to my regular readers. As usual, don’t feel obliged to read it… I’m fine if you just toss it; we all get way too many emails.

I’m on a little “vacation” — about 4 days in DC and 4 days in NY, places I know well—having traveled to DC many, many times and having grown up in NY, and I have returned many times a year since relocating. Still, the whole idea of getting on a plane and being in different surroundings seemed both comforting and also scary. This, from a veteran traveler who’s been to more than 65 countries. This was only my second cross country trip since Covid. But the timing was good; I just finished two large, complex, multi-year projects (with minimum in-person contact) and I was ready for a break.

I’m traveling with my friend Carol from LA (whom I’ve known since graduate school — and I’m not revealing how long ago that was). Carol and I have developed a routine of traveling somewhere every year (Santa Fe, Marfa, Montreal, Aix en Provence, Amsterdam, etc.), but naturally we missed last year (we were supposed to go to Scandinavia). It’s generally Carol’s choice as to the location since I’ve been to many more places and am happy to revisit the good ones. Given the Covid situation we decided to stay stateside this year, although this December Mike and I will hopefully be traveling overseas.

Arrived in DC on Friday night (October 22) and met up at the airport. Miraculously our two flights arrived within 15 minutes of one another; both flights were on time and were at neighboring gates. How’s that for planning? And luck?

We chose The Line Hotel in the Adams Morgan neighborhood of DC, which has certainly become a very buzzing place since the last time I visited. My room has a distant view of the Washington Monument! We were hungry and it was already about 11:00 pm… Every place we checked out within a three block radius was closing. We were getting kind of desperate and then stumbled on a taco place.. So tacos it would be. As it turned out Taqueria Al Lado was great… margaritas, mojitos, tetillas, aguachiles, and ceviche… and great beers. So we satisfied our hunger in a really upbeat place with great people’s art on the walls – focused on Trump as a clown!  

Saturday, October 23

Started the day with breakfast at the Line… which was surprisingly good and quick, since we had a busy day ahead of us.. Took the Metro to the Hirshhorn Museum to see the Laurie Anderson show which was quite striking and political. While most of the pieces (mostly full room installations and experiential) were memorable – one stood out above the others: “Habeas Corpus.” It occupies an entire room and seated in a corner is an oversized three dimensional “white chair” on which Mohammed el Gharani, the youngest detainee at Guantanamo Bay “sits” most of the time and tells his story in his own voice. In reality he is on film that is projected onto the chair so realistically you believe he is sitting there. Gharani is Chadian raised in Saudi Arabia, and after the September 11th attacks, he was sent to Guantánamo and held and tortured for more than seven years. Authorities said he had belonged to a London-based Al Qaeda cell, but in reality he had never been to London and was only fourteen when he was arrested. In 2009, an American judge ruled that the allegations against Gharani were baseless, and he was released. We also spent some time at the Duchamp exhibit which was small but good.

While I thought the content and execution of Anderson’s show was great, my personal feeling is that it should be out on streets and not made precious by being inside a museum… but that’s a long story that ties to my basic dislike of museums as pedestals for art and for making art both precious and unreachable— and therefore negating whatever political message might have been part of the intent. Sure the Hirschhorn is free, so you could argue that the works are approachable; but a quick glance at who is inside the museum makes it clear that not everyone feels welcome in these kind of institutions. I didn’t see a single person of color at the museum. Then again, most are living the situations Anderson raises in her work, so no need to see it in a series of rooms. 

From the Hirschhorn, we walked around the city, through the mall (Carol had not really been to DC much so we hit up some major sites) and ultimately  decided to stop for a prosecco and a snack at the Willard Hotel… where we watched the town go by and watched a series of very upscale Washingtonians arrive for a very expensive and formal wedding reception. Like many of you (I assume), I always believed the story that the term “lobbyist” was coined at the Willard because  President Grant would come by the hotel lobby for a brandy and a cigar and he was always besieged by people who wanted some sort of legislation.. Thus he called them “lobbyists.” Well, according to the information at the hotel the term was used well before Grant… but the reality remains that Grant would spend time in the lobby and that people would ask for favors.

I also realized that while I’ve been to DC many, many times, I’m usually there for meetings, work, etc. and sometimes add an extra day, I’ve never been a “tourist” in DC… so I’ve been looking forward to this.

Following our delightful time at the Willard, we went back to the hotel to freshen up and off we went to Tail Up Goat – a neighborhood restaurant with a Mediterranean menu. Food was fantastic.. We opted for all small plates: scallop crudo with watermelon radish and apples; baby honeynut squash with some kind of dill yogurt and chili crunch; duck breast with charred cabbage which had mint and sumac glaze; pork agnolotti with rutabaga and rosemary. Given that we had walked about 6 miles, we determined we deserved dessert (a really good decision – some kind of toasted corn cake with paw paw custard and madeira wine). We strolled  back to the hotel…  A good first day.

Sunday, October 24

Following a quick breakfast at the Line, we taxied to the African American Museum where we had reserved tickets for early entry. The taxi ride began a series of conversations with predominantly Ethiopian drivers who are happy to chat if you start the conversations. We learned that they really don’t like Virginia drivers whom they feel don’t understand  cities and drive like the suburbanites they are. They also feel DC is very calm now with Biden – no big demonstrations and “no craziness” as they stated they experienced every day with Trump in DC. With Biden, they feel he is “sleeping” all the time, but they prefer it this way. The museum is quite wonderful with an enormous number of exhibits that range from cultural to political to historical to food, culture, music, theater, and more. 

My only disappointment was that there wasn’t more effort to make the museum more interactive and to force visitors to immerse themselves in the culture as well as the reality of daily life..

From the museum we walked to a little nonprofit restaurant called Immigrant food where we had wonderful shakshuka and salads. 

Then it was on to Black Lives Matter Plaza, passing the White House and other official buildings… and then on to Planet Word – a very sweet small museum that focuses on the history of language with very creative and participatory exhibits. The elevator is totally book lined. (In the photo below, we are inside the elevator.)

According to my exercise app, we are averaging between 6 and 10 miles per day walking.

We then strolled the streets and stopped at the Hamilton Hotel for a much needed glass of wine and watched both the preparations for a wedding at the hotel and also the skies turn grey as rain approached. We hopped into a taxi and headed for the hotel. Dinner was at the Albi – a Mediterranean treasure for foodies, located in the newly-renovated and gentrified area of the Navy Yard.  Foodies, hold on…..

We shared a smashed pumpkin labneh with pecans and shaved apples; yellowfin tuna with bulghur, lettuces, mint, and a bunch of spices; grilled honeynut squash with muhamarra and some other things that were yummy; crab dolmas with corn, peppers, and garlic yogurt; and manti (which I savored all through trips to Turkey). We were tempted by several other dishes but needed to save room for dessert!! And it was well worth it.

Coming next… the remainder of the Washington DC part of the trip.  We are well and having a great time.

Fern  

26. The Final Day… 39 Hours and Back in Oakland. 1/13 and 1/14/23…

June 6, 2025

Greetings from Oakland, CA- (sent on 1/17/23)

We landed at SFO on Saturday morning at 6:00 AM! By the time we gathered bags, went through customs, and found a taxi in the pouring rain… it was about 7:30 am when we arrived at our house. But we are now settled, and I just wanted to thank all of you for the many comments I got about the posts over the past 4 weeks. It was a good trip, with many highlights that forced us to think about the Middle East in different ways.

Anyway, to close off this series of posts… Following the usual, large, yummy, diverse Israeli breakfast, we strolled Akko one last time and left while it was drizzling… headed for a slow drive to the Tel Aviv Airport. Our flight would not leave until 1:00 AM (actually that would be January 14, sort of late night on the 13th as we calculated it). We needed to return the car at about 6:30 pm, so we had quite a few hours to meander and get lost while driving.

So, we avoided the “freeway” and took small roads ––first to Haifa to see the Bahai Gardens, located way atop the northern slope of Mount Carmel. It’s a series of nineteen terraces with a golden-domed temple (?) that sits on the central terrace. We took a lot of wrong turns to get there so we managed to see a lot of daily life on the streets of Haifa which was interesting. Haifa is the third largest city in Israel with a population of about 400,000. If I should ever return to Israel (highly unlikely, as I think I’ve seen enough and don’t really want to help Israel’s economy; perhaps if there would be a drastic change in Israel’s administration, a recognition of Palestine, and a return of settlement lands—we can dream, can’t we?), Haifa would be a good place to visit for a few days.

It’s a large industrial port city on the Mediterranean with a web of streets that twist, turn, and climb. It doesn’t have a classical “center” and I think most people probably just stop off to see the gardens which are truly magnificent. We didn’t do the walk down through the terraces as you needed a reservation, but we did park near the Louis Promenade which provides spectacular views of the terraces and gardens. They call them the “hanging gardens.” 

As we drove through the streets, it felt pretty cosmopolitan. It’s described as a “diverse” city, although the demographics show that it is 82% Israeli Jewish and about 14% Christian and 4 % Muslim. Not sure how “diverse” is defined. 

From Haifa we continued to drive south and decided to head to a town called Atlit (purely picked it out on the map rather randomly). It’s a small seaside town that appears to now have some new (architecturally designed) houses that are probably used as weekend get-aways for Tel Aviv urbanites. It’s also home to artists and funky residents who have some very eclectic sculptures and found objects all over their yards. The latter group have obviously been residing in the area for decades, as witnessed by the age of the houses and the weathered sculptures. Wonder how those old-timers are taking to the new, hip, homeowners with much bigger and fancier homes!

We also made a pit stop at Zichron Yaakov, which is a pretty new city with what appears to be an upscale community. It’s close to Israel’s high-tech industry and also has wine growing enterprises. Our plan had been to have a late lunch in Zichron Yaakov, given that we wouldn’t be eating until well after midnight—on the plane. We arrived around 4:00 pm and most streets were deserted, and cafes and restaurants were mostly all closed. Given that our lifestyles don’t automatically trigger that Fridays and Saturdays (Shabat) mean most places are either shuttered or closing early, we missed out on eating in Zichron Yaakov. But we did sense a good vibe in the town. We kept driving and googling but every time we located a restaurant it was about to close. We eventually found ourselves at a mall… and dreaded what food we’d find. We settled for pizza, and it was a pretty good pie… or maybe we were just very very hungry so our taste discrimination was at an all time low.

Found our way to Tel Aviv Airport; returned the rental car which was simple compared to our return in Amman. Hung out at the airport lounge for about 5 hours and made our way back home.

Thanks for all the comments and encouragement to keep up the posts. Hope all is well with each of you.

Looking forward to catching up.

Fern

25. Akko, Israel… Amazing Serendipity. 1/12/23

June 6, 2025

Today we strolled the little alleyways and streets of Akko’s old city, walking through market streets and more market streets.. Oh, we also walked through the underground tunnel (The Templar Tunnel) which was built by monks called “solitary soldiers.” They were the ones who took care of the temple (hence the name ‘templar’). They also protected the Christians who came to the holy land. The templars dug the secret tunnel right under the houses above; the tunnel connected to the Citadel and to the port. It was discovered only in 1994! Water still flows through the tunnel.

As we strolled, the skies kept getting darker and it began to rain. At first it was fine, because we were covered by whatever covering was in the markets—plastic, roofing, etc. But then it started to rain much harder and we were getting soaked, so we looked for a place to get shelter and maybe some mint tea. There are tons of tiny restaurants, but we really weren’t hungry and didn’t want to take up table space. Finally, we saw a tiny “café” which served coffee (which we don’t drink) but we thought we’d go inside and maybe they could make us tea. It was all men in the little shop, which was very dimly lit, and once inside we realized that most of the men were smoking shisha in hookahs. But we asked the guy who was making some kind of food if we could have tea and so we were fine…sitting in big comfortable couches having our tea and staying dry. 

While we waited for the rain to stop (each of us playing Spelling Bee on our phones), a 60-ish year-old man came over and asked where we were from, speaking fairly good English. Turns out he lived in San Jose for about 28 years; he’s an Israeli Arab, born in Akko. His mother was Jewish and his father Muslim, but he was raised Muslim. As we chatted, we found out more and more about him. He has three grown children (none of whom have ever been to Israel—which is disappointing to him—two boys (30 and 33) and one daughter (28); they all live in San Jose (and perhaps the wife as well; he didn’t say). He clearly knew the guys in this café well.

As we talked, he explained that he had built a construction business in San Jose, and he also started a very successful (high volume) pizza place there as well. Then he told us that when he was starting the construction business, he went door to door in many Bay Area cities looking for work and that he met a political woman whose name he said was “D’Angela (??)” He said she hired him to do work and then recommended him to her friends and he did a lot of construction and renovation work for this “D’Angela” and others, when the firm was really small. He said when he met this woman, he didn’t know who she was, but when he told others they explained she was very famous. After a few minutes we realized, he was referring to Angela Davis!!! His firm grew and took on much bigger projects, but he said he owed a lot to her. We also chatted a bit about ages; he guessed that Mike was 62 years old… so Mike was obviously in seventh heaven.

He asked us how we were liking Israel and where we have been. I told him where we’ve gone and about our time in the West Bank. He asked what we thought, and I was very honest with him. He nodded saying it was a terrible situation and he was glad he came from Akko because Akko was a “mixed city.”

I began to be more curious about this guy, Ibraham Baballah. He said to look him up on the Internet when we got home, but I started to google him right then and there. And as I did that, he said “You’ll find that I sued John Ashcroft (Attorney General in the Bush administration) and I won!!” 

So, here’s the story (and frankly I remember reading it in the newspapers in 2003: Ibraham (our new best friend), sued the US government and was granted asylum and eventually American citizenship based on the suffering he endured as an Israeli Arab through persecution by the Israeli government and military. He didn’t go into detail, but it included not being able to find work in his field (accounting) and as a fisherman being attacked by the Israeli military on the sea. As a result of the judgement in his favor, he, his wife, and his oldest son who was born in Israel couldn’t be deported from the US.

Ashcroft had the discretion to deny the asylum if the family had a criminal record or posed danger to the US. But his record was clean. The judge determined that Baballah established that he had indeed suffered persecution based on his ethnicity and religion and that he had a genuine fear of future persecution if he returned to Israel. He testified that as the child of a mixed marriage he faced discrimination his whole life. He wound up a fisherman because of this discrimination and that banks in Israel would not hire him. The story is pretty complicated, and it was the fact that he had numerous, very specific incidents to point to that indicated and proved how he was discriminated and how he was treated in Israel, especially by the military. That convinced the judges in the 9th Circuit to grant his asylum request. His attorney was quoted as saying that the implications of this case show that “it doesn’t matter where people come from, that we as a nation are interested in applying our immigration law. Of course Israel is an ally, but if someone suffers persecution, we’re going to apply our laws regardless of where they’re coming from.”

And the American-Arab Anti-Discrimination Committee said “It’s important that a court has recognized that the Israeli state can be very abusive to non-Jewish citizens, especially Palestinian citizens of Israel.”

What serendipity! We go into some tiny shisha place with all men—just to get out of the rain—and we meet this guy whose story is so fascinating. After learning the story, we talked a bit more and were more open about our politics and his plight. He did not return to Israel until just a few years ago to visit and was a little nervous about what would happen at the border, He carries both an Israeli and a US passport. But all went well, and he has returned again.

From there we continued to try to stay dry, and walked the market–dashing in and out of little shops and jumping from awning to awning—but to no avail. Anyway, despite the rain, we went back to Uri Buri because I decided I wanted to buy the cookbook (which has been published in many languages). Last night, I almost bought it but then realized it would be heavy to take back. While at our room, I checked online to see if I could get the book… but it’s out of print and the only copies available were about $250, because I supposed it’s rare? So today we went back and bought the book. For about $25. and there was Uri at a table—very willing to autograph it—thus the photo above of me, Mike, and Uri.

Tonight, we decided—our last real dinner in Israel (except for what we will eat at the airport tomorrow) we will eat again at Uri Buri… More on that tomorrow as I’m going to send this out before dinner.

Best –

Fern

24. Tel Aviv to Akko. January 11, 2023

June 6, 2025

Greetings from Akko—an enchanting seaside city with a “mixed” population (as they say here—meaning that Jews and Arabs and Christians live harmoniously) and an eclectic and artsy town. We arrived a few hours ago.

We began the day by heading to Tel Aviv Airport to pick up our rental car which took a lot longer than we anticipated. Finally got into the rental car at about 2:00. We had planned several stops between Tel Aviv and Akko, but traffic was a nightmare and as we inched along, we decided to head directly to Bat Shlomo, a really funky café (and I think the only enterprise in this little “village”). It sells homemade cheeses and other stuff. We settled on the mixed cheese platter which came with 8 different cheeses, sun dried tomatoes, grape leaves stuffed with cheese (naturally!), goat yogurt, labneh with spices, two different kinds of breads and a salad. We could barely eat half of it, but it was all wonderful and it was delightful to sit outside in this very eclectic garden adjacent to the little shop which is chock full of memorabilia of the family that came to Haifa in 1882 from Romania and is now run by the great grandson and his wife (who is Filipino) who live in the original cottage next to the shop. 

We made some decisions about dinner (where to eat dinner is a very important daily decision). We decided to go to the Uri Buri Restaurant which is only about a 10-minute walk from where we are staying in the Old City. More on that in a minute… Akotika is an interesting hotel in that there really isn’t any hotel building. There is a reception building whose stones that form the walls and arches date to the crusades. But the rooms are scattered into existing buildings within the old city. We have a large room with a terrace (although we have not used any of the terraces in any of the hotels we’ve stayed at because it’s been too cold), a large bathroom (as well as a freestanding clawfoot tub in the bedroom). We are on the second floor, which requires walking up and down about 50 stairs that are pretty steep and not always even. Fortunately, there are railings for most of the ascent. Breakfast is served on the roof of the reception building which requires ascending (and descending) about 90 stairs that are very steep. But the view and the food are worth the climb.

Uri Buri is one of those restaurants that are mentioned by chefs when they discuss Israeli food. The owner is Uri Jeremias and he has an iconic long white beard, so you’d spot him anywhere (as we did while walking around town the following day). The menu is all fish; after all you’re at the sea…why would you think about meat? The restaurant is in the first row of buildings from the sea. Foodies such as Anthony Bourdain and Ottolenghi have eaten at Uri Buri and have mentioned it in posts. He is considered one of the founding fathers of modern Israeli cooking. Supposedly he got his passion for cooking and food while traveling in India, most notably Goa, where he realized the importance of fresh fish and what to do with it. Apparently “buri” is the Hebrew word for “mullet.” The philosophy of the restaurant from the start was that to serve only food that Uri would eat, which was the fish near the restaurant and to use as few ingredients as possible (maximum 8). This was in 1988. So, it was minimalist cooking, I suppose… olive oil, garlic, chili pepper, lemon, and other herbs.

The waiter told us that all the fish they serve is caught that day or a couple of days prior if they are brining or using other methods that require time for marination or other preparations. The restaurant is small, so when you make a reservation they make it clear to call if you change your mind. Anyway, we had a great meal—shared two starters and two half-portion mains. The mains were sea bass in a cauldron (that included coconut sauce, chili, and apples; and a shrimp dish cooked in a cast iron pan with olive oil, garlic, spicy pepper, lemon, and coriander. The starters were: baby St. Peter’s fish in caramel with beet cubes; and the ceviche (meagre?) For dessert we shared the kanafeh (alongside of which was a scoop of rosewater ice cream and a scoop of cardamon ice cream. OK.. enough on food.

Good night… More tomorrow